Alright, so you’ve met me, or heard of my practice and you’ve gotten yourself here. What IS here? Where are we headed? What is this Faery person about, why are they doing what they are?

This upcoming series of writing sets forth to clarify some of that. I’m planning on sending out about one update a month for the next 6 months. So hold on, it’s going to unfold and you’ll see where we’re headed.

First off, what is Faery for? If they were to distill down the things they stand for, how would that look? In short;
I’m for;
Self Questioning for deeper Self Understanding
Self Exploration
Self Growth
Self Identity.

What those are not about;
it is NOT
exclusion
telling you what to be or how to act

Well that sounds fine and dandy, but very vague. Let’s get some more clarity in there. How do I encourage all of this “Self” stuff?

By supporting the process for you to explore what these things mean to you;
Who you are in regards to others, how you judge or react to their judgment
Who you are in self expression, who you want to be, how you express
Who you are in regards to your gender or physical body, what assumptions (if any) have you picked up about gender or the physical body, are they supporting you or holding you back?
Who you are in relationships, intimate or otherwise, is it how you want to be? Are you holding yourself back?

This is the heavy stuff, many people never bother even thinking about it, and some if they do think about it, they shy away from it quickly. I’ve spent most of my life exploring it in regards to myself. Along the way I’ve met others who do the same. We are not alone. More often than not, we want to have these conversations, but don’t know who or where to turn. I want to be a resource and create resources to assist this process that do not tell you who or what to be. Resources that encourage you to discover that. Resources that support integrating it into your being so you can be your fully expressed self. Feeling whole.

Why would I want to do this? Do I need to bother with all of that, it seems like a lot…. You may be thinking.

Do as little or as much as you like, I’m not here to tell you what to do. What I am here to do is encourage you to clarify you inner world, release the old patterns and baggage you’ve picked up along the way so that you can be your deepest self, fully expressed, without your fears and anxieties holding you back. Who would you be if your thoughts of how you’re “supposed” to act weren’t there, and you acted out of your heart and your dreams of what you want in the world? Who would you be if your actions came from loving morals instead of worrisome fears?

This is why I do what I do. I’ve seen far too often people holding themselves back from their dreams and aspirations because of the proverbial “other.” People wanting to be comfortable in their own skin with their loved ones, yet feeling alone and isolated. Humans wanting connection and fearing that asking for it and communicating what they like is dangerous. Beings who want to respect and honor others, but get triggered so strongly by their own past issues and traumas. This means I want to work with whatever aspect you want to explore. You don’t need to want to go all the way down the rabbit hole, I’ll support you as far as is suiting to your needs. Want to go the whole way down the rabbit hole, that’s awesome too, and I’ll be joyous to support that journey.

I believe that the less trauma people have trigging their lives, the less they will trigger others and the cycle can begin to reduce. When more people are comfortable in their self expression, they too are more comfortable with others self expression. We can communicate clearer and easier from this space. If our communications aren’t coming from an internal place of self lack, lack in love and worth, then we can exchange ideas and conversations in a much more lighthearted and open way.

Let’s explore these areas, and find out who you can be, when you have the space and the feelings of being free.