Faery’s Musings
Women, Breasts, and Emotional Labour
When does a girl become a women? Is it when she can vote? Is it when she has sex? Is it when she is married? Has a job? Rites of passage in today’s society are hard to come by in general for most children regardless of gender. Women have an interesting struggle to contend with. […]
Reading Musings #2 – The Organized Mind
I’m going to continue this trend of posting bits and pieces of what I’m reading, for both the benefit of my clients, and getting to share what inspires me. It’s amazing what insights I can gain from such a variety of books and bring these back into my practice for my clients. I’m still reading […]
Reading Musings #1 – The Organized Mind
As a hypnotherapist I am constantly reading and expanding my understanding on psychology and cognitive behavioral science so as to better support my clients. I have been posting these on my FB page, and I figured I would also post them here. Here are some points from the current book I am reading. (The Organized […]
Faery’s 2016 Reading List
I read… A lot, and folks ask me what I’m reading and what I would recommend all of the time. This list is particularly books that I would love for my clients to read as it would help them to get a brilliant understanding of themselves. I’m all about putting the power of healing in […]
The Myth of the Healed Healer Pt 1
This is an interesting topic for me. There are many facets to the myth of the healed healer, and the interesting ways that our society (Traditional Western European) has further pushed the assumptions associated towards this myth. I’ll be going over this myth and it’s assumptions in stages as it touches on some deep pieces […]
Newsletter Journey With Faery #8 – Boundaries
Alright, so we had a special edition newsletter, and before that we were exploring personal wants and needs and starting to express them, also shining the light on self-full Vs, selfish. Now we’re going to get even deeper into it. We’re really going to get into the muck of it. Ready for it? Boundaries. *Bam* […]
Special Edition Newsletter – G-Day
This is a presentation I created about gender norms, for the G-Day celebration that occurred on Oct 16th, 2016. It was written for girl identified persons from the age of 10-12. _________________________________________________________ We get judged a lot by appearances in this world. Sometimes we worry about how we look, we can worry about what others […]
Newsletter Journey With Faery #7 Expressing Wants
In the last issue we began navigating into the territory of our own personal wants. Discovering our personal wants after we release the societal conditioning that tries to tell us what we want. I find that often times, when people are used to, or conditioned to accepting what the world expects them to do based […]
How to get to the Office!
Lucid Liberations (Faery) has a fancy new office! It’s located in a beautiful character building on Fort St. Since the start of the year there have been all sorts of changes afoot, this is but one of them! It is the Trebatha Building 1124 Fort St. I am on the 3rd floor, at the back […]
Newsletter Journey With Faery Issue #6 Our Personal Wants
After going through all of these pieces, self love, masculine, feminine, sexuality.. We are left with ourselves.. What do we want to do with ourselves? This isn’t some self-isolating question of removing ourselves from the community and never caring about anyone else again. This is about what do we actually want? Once we get all […]
Newsletter Journey with Faery Issue #5 Our Sexual Associations
So we have discussed the dynamics of how masculine and feminine associations can impact our actions and comfort levels in how we express ourselves in our day to day lives. Now let us get in to some deeper stuff. Sexuality. That is a big topic. So big that I’m not going to try to condense […]
Newsletter journey with Faery Issue #4 Feminine Associations
Alright, so we have gone over the masculine associations and other steps in the journey of self exploration. Lets examine the feminine associations. Now if we’ve done one proverbial side, why do we have to do the other? I mean don’t they just balance out on their own if you address one? Nope. The mind […]
Newsletter Journey With Faery Issue #3 Masculine Associations
Alright, so we’ve cleared up “Where we are headed” and what one of the “first steps” is. On to the next layer of self exploration. Our self perceptions. Hold up, you may be saying, didn’t we kind of do that when we went over self love? Not quite. Loving ourselves can happen without looking at […]
Newsletter Journey With Faery Issue #2 Self Love
Alright, so we’ve clarified where are we going now let’s get into that process. I wrote about Self questioning, exploration and identity. Well how does one begin that journey? It seems long and vague… Where to start? Start with the self. I have found that the more one tends to focus on the other (partners, […]
Pricing and Packages
Alright, so here is a little break down of my packages, why I created them the way I did and how the pricing works. First off, pricing. If there is one thing I hear a lot in this world, it’s about the cost of stuff. Yes things cost money currently, that’s how the system is […]
Newsletter Journey with Faery Issue #1
Alright, so you’ve met me, or heard of my practice and you’ve gotten yourself here. What IS here? Where are we headed? What is this Faery person about, why are they doing what they are? This upcoming series of writing sets forth to clarify some of that. I’m planning on sending out about one update […]
Why Affirmations Sometimes Do Not Work
Affirmations. If you’ve been exploring the realm of self help, or self improvement, you’ve come across affirmations. The art of crafting positive now statements of what you want in your life as though you already have them. Even though you don’t… and you know you don’t… sounds… easy? Affirmations are powerful, yes. To have daily […]
Hypnosis! Is it not working?
In working with clients, sometimes they have communicated their fears that Hypnosis isn’t working… I wanted to share what I communicate back to them, as I find if one person is experiencing it, then possibly other clients are. There are a few ways to look at this situation. One, that there is an underlying belief […]
Aphantasia And How We Visualize
I found this very interesting article on IFLscience.com. I love that website, I am very science minded with a good dose of spirituality mixed in. Anyways, this particular article caught my eye in a couple of ways. http://www.iflscience.com/brain/cant-imagine-pictures-your-mind-you-might-have-aphantasia For one, given the header of the article, it sounds like someone could have a very disturbing […]
The beginning
Welcome to the Blog, There will be a varied collection of things here. Sorted, but vast. Faery has many different passions and pursuits. The Mind, Dance, Contortion, Outdoors, Sustainability, Wig making, Yoga, as well as Sexuality and Gender. Feel free to explore as you so desire, there are plans to create video content in the […]